Are you comfortable with yourself?

Many of us would boldly answer ‘yes’ to this question, step back and give it some thought.

Why do you do most of the things you do? Do you do them because that’s what you really want to do at the moment, your choice? Or do you do them because you are worried about what others might think of you if you did what you really wanted?

Except if something you want to do is really wrong or unacceptable behavior, there’s no reason to not act as you want because of how another might feel about you?

Doing things to feel better about yourself is not a healthy practice.

Wearing heels just so you look taller, talking about money like your dad grows it in your backyard, saying you’re not a virgin when you’re not even too comfortable talking with a lady just because your friends think it isn’t cool to be a virgin and other related issues are examples of such.

If you need to do anything to love yourself, slow down and have a rethink.

God loves you just the way you are, if you’re not changing for yourself or for God don’t do it for anybody.